And now we turn to the question of what specifically we can say grieving. We describe in detail about the letters of condolence, but these tips are equally valid for the interpretation of condolence, because it is a very delicate subject, and think about what to say in this case should be no less than if you decided to write a similar letter to . So when you are going to express my condolences to the letter, try to imagine as if you personally talk to the addressee. This will give you closer contact with him and will do so, that comfort will be more sincere. Start your letter with the recognition that what happened - indeed a great loss and expression of deepest sympathy. If you close knew the deceased, after this introduction we can go to the story about what the quality you have narrowed the gap with this man during his lifetime. It is appropriate to share some happy memories. In concluding the letter, you can offer assistance in organizing the funeral, or something else. You can invite guests or for a walk (if you're close enough to the grieving and are confident that he would endorse such a proposal). If you're not quite sure of the reaction of the recipient, it is best to avoid arguments on the spiritual and philosophical themes. Remember: The purpose of the letter - to soothe and support the grieving. Avoid comments that might cause discomfort.
